My wife told me a few weeks ago that she has a strong attraction to women.?

She has gotten to the point where she never has with me anymore and when i asked her about it she said she really doesnt have any desire for it anymore. Ok well then i got on her computer to do something the other day and found where she had been on ographic websites. Also i found a vibrator under our couch. A girl i know told me sorry but im afraid you married a . I go to church and would not stand to be married to a girl who is a . I feel like i have been duped all the way around. And all this after we have been together for 9 years. We dont have kids so im thinking seriously about saying goodbye. any comments suggestions?